why men pay for prostitutes.

[Munky]

Article from ABC:http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MensHealth/study-attempts-find-men-pay-sex/story?id=9663694&page=1

summarized version:http://www.tressugar.com/Soliciting-Prostitutes-Why-Men-Pay-Sex-7048789

was talkin about this on campus with a group of friends. lots of laughs, but theirs a much more serious message beneath it all.

ok, I L-M-A-O at these "specialist" who come up with all these deep psychological explanations to why men use prostitutes. reasons such as, its a disease, or how at one part it said it dates back to early childhood. dude, me an all my guy friends agreed that they are reading way too in to this.too complex. the truth is very simple. we are a instant satisfaction ppl. fast food, streaming video, instant sex. if your gonna have to pay indirectly anyway, mine as well pay directly and cut through all the drama.

now, i've never paid a prostitute a day in my life and dont see me doing it in the future. but, i can see where their comeing from. a guy gets fed up with all the extra work and rings of fire you have to leap through for a girl, rather jus take the easy way out and pay up front in one lump sum. very sad that this is what its come to, but its happening.

but maybe i'm wrong, maybe thier is a group of ppl out there who was touched my their uncle or somethin as a kid and hold some kind of deep emotinal distraught that he vents out on prostitutes. a bit far fetched, but it could happen i guess.

so when did the realtionship between man and woman get so bad?

your thoughts?

[demon-fayt]

When did it get bad? When was it ever working? I suppose that the fault of this is not only in the fact that we as a whole have become acustomed to instant gratification services, but also because we live in a society that thrives off of having. We actually worry about this so much, that we constantly fear not having. Sex is no exception to this rule, and would possibly be the best explanation of this 'epidemic'. Yes, having a steady relationship would normally provide one with enough sex (if done right) to sate the average 'needs'. But at some point, we realize that our 'needs' can always be expanded, and as such, we have to seek out more to fulfill those expanded 'needs'. This principle applies to all desires aside from those of the physical assortment. This could also be determined by mans inability to separate himself with a nice big ole pair of boobies. A man must always have a pair of boobies to lay his head upon to make him feel safe at night. Or....<_<......something like that.

[Duama449]

If you really think about its just at its core pretty primal. You could argue that for the sake of the species men have developed the need to hump everything in sight to further breeding while women are more maternal to ensure said offspring are taken care of. But personally i think the whole payin for sex thing is more society based. With fast food, technology, and everything we've become creatures of convenience so why not get sex faster? But the whole infidelity is natral selection is by far one of my fav discussionS. 

[Munky]

When did it get bad? When was it ever working? 

lol. thats the first smart remark you've made that actually has a point.

uhm....idk, we gotta get it together.

when men get so desperate to the point where they feel they  have to pay for sex, and how did they allow themselves to get to that point.  think thats the bulk of the problem that needs to be addressed.

I remember i was bummed out during like the December of my senior yr, because i was focusing so hard on college applications, my artwork, a slur of dude dates that were coming up and other aspects of my life. i remember saying somehtin like, I haven't had sex in over a month. then my friend looked at me and said, "you do realize there are people our age still trying to get laid for the first time right?"

and it just made me really think about it, as soon as he said that i could instantly come up with like 8 people who were struggling to even have a love life. i'm 18 in college now, and i know for a fact there are people far older than me who still haven't had their first kiss. just as a guy i know how it feels to be there, that crushing feeling of depression...like a deep infinite well you cant climb out of. feels like everyone is having a love life except for you. and i only felt that for a brief period of time in my early teen yrs before i eventually got over it. to think there are people out there my age or older who are still going through that, who still have that carried inside of them makes it a little easier to understand why prostitutes have managed to be so deeply rooted in society no matter what part of the world your at for this long.

with that said. its more than men just being lazy pigs. not every guy who goes to a prostitute is going there just because he has a one track mind and wants sex now. that instant pleasure. some dudes think this is the only (or should i say easiest) way their going to get affection.